Romans 12:14 – 21 (NIV) 14Bless those who persecute you; bless and do not curse. 15Rejoice with those who rejoice; mourn with those who mourn. 16Live in harmony with one another. Do not be proud, but be willing to associate with people of low position. Do not be conceited. 17Do not repay anyone evil for evil. Be careful to do what is right in the eyes of everybody. 18If it is possible, as far as it depends on you, live at peace with everyone. 19Do not take revenge, my friends, but leave room for God’s wrath, for it is written: “It is mine to avenge; I will repay,” says the Lord. 20On the contrary: “If your enemy is hungry, feed him; if he is thirsty, give him something to drink. In doing this, you will heap burning coals on his head.” 21Do not be overcome by evil, but overcome evil with good.
Jeremiah 29:4 – 7 (NIV) 4This is what the LORD Almighty, the God of Israel, says to all those I carried into exile from Jerusalem to Babylon: 5“Build houses and settle down; plant gardens and eat what they produce. 6Marry and have sons and daughters; find wives for your sons and give your daughters in marriage, so that they too may have sons and daughters. Increase in number there; do not decrease. 7Also, seek the peace and prosperity of the city to which I have carried you into exile. Pray to the LORD for it, because if it prospers, you too will prosper.”

Victims of Rwandan genocide
In April of 1994, an extremist group of Hutus who had control of the government of Rwanda went on a rampage of genocide, killing 800,000 of the estimated one million Tutsis while the United Nations, the Catholic Church (the predominant Christian denomination in Rwanda) and the rest of the world did nothing for 90 days. That bloody period of Rwandan history was chronicled in the Oscar-nominated film Hotel Rwanda,
Meet Jeannette Nyirabaganwa. She has at least 100 reasons to hate Anastaz Turimubakunzi. Both live in the African nation of Rwanda. Jeannette is Tutsi, Anastaz is Hutu. It was during the time of national genocide that Jeannette’s husband, her baby, her parents and and 100 other members of her family were murdered. In the war’s aftermath, Anastaz confessed to the murder of Jeanette’s husband.
Following his release from prison in 2005, in a remarkable act of forgiveness and reconciliation, Jeannette hired Anastaz to work on her coffee plantation. What is happening in Rwanda today is part of a move of God which is taking place in other parts of the continent which have a violent past as part of their histories.

Anastaz and Jeannette
If you look at the body language of Jeannette and Anastaz you will see that there is much work yet to be done in their relationship. And that brings me to one of the points I want to make in this posting. You don’t have to like someone in order to be reconciled toward them. That’s because the process has its roots in unconditional love, the same kind of love which God has toward you and me.
The process of reconciliation which has swept across this portion of Africa has had economic benefits as well. The economy of Rwanda is booming, especially its exports of coffee. And Jeannette and Anastaz are thriving as a result of their tenuous friendship.
There is another story with which we ought to be familiar

Greg Mortenson and friends
In 2006 Greg Mortenson wrote a best-selling book about his experiences building relationships in Afghanistan. Entitled Three Cups of Tea, the book chronicles Mortenson’s desire to reach the people of Afghanistan, one of the most isolated, backward nations on earth, by building schools.
According to Mortenson, Islamic religious extremism and distortion of the message of the Qur’an has roots in ignorance, illiteracy and poverty. The antidote to those conditions is education. And so, using the profits of his book, Mortenson has built more than 300 schools in Afghanistan, many of them in the areas where American troops will be sent to fight.
Mortenson was one of the people who Secretary of Defense Robert Gates, General David Petraeus, and other advisors to President Obama consulted prior to the President’s ordering of 30,000 additional troops to Afghanistan. The leaders of our nation’s war council were amazed by the success which Mortenson had there. There is, therefore, an irony here that the plan which Mortenson espouses as the road to peace in that country, and which earned him a nomination for this year’s Nobel Peace Prize by a bi-partisan group of members of Congrfess, was trumped by the ultimate Nobel Peace Prize winner who ordered the escalation of the conflict there.
God’s marching orders to the Isrealites who were soon to be sent into 70 years’ exile in Babylon, articulated through the prophet Jeremiah in the prelude to the famous passage in Jeremiah 29:11, were for them to pray for the prosperity of the country in which they were sent to live.
If those were our marching orders too, what would that look like in Memphis, Tennessee where there are problems similar to those of Afghanistan and Rwanda.
The main thing that we can learn about these two stories is that one person can change a culture.
Jeannette’s decision to forgive Anastaz affected hundreds of others, and she herself was affected by others who chose that path before her.
Greg Mortenson’s drive to build schools which have been destroyed in lawless Afghanistan has impacted all parties involved in this war, and cuts to the root of what lies at the unrest there.
There are other Biblical precedents for this radical shift in cultures. Joseph’s kindness caused Pharoah to believe in Joseph’s God, and Joseph was placed in the vanguard of changing that culture. Daniel changed the heart of King Nebuchadnezzar, and caused him to change a rule where the king was the object of worship, to where the King of kings became the God of the Babylonians.
Forgiveness lies at the core of every one of these models.
And so it would seem that the lack of forgiveness lies at the root of every social problem which is impacting Memphis today. Connect the dots from public corruption, black-on-black crime, fatherlessness, even the high rate of drug abuse and infant mortality in Memphis, and the dots will lead to a lack of forgiveness. Forgiveness is God’s simple solution to all of our very complex problems.
So what do we need to know about forgiveness?
FORGIVENESS IS GIVEN AT THE WILL OF THE INJURED PARTY. It is most often the case that the one who inflicted the injury is unaware, or chooses to ignore what his actions have caused. In a minority of cases the criminal actively seeks forgiveness, but until forgiveness is both sought and received, the process is incomplete.
Bills have been passed in Congress where the government of the United States has taken responsibility for the negative effects caused by national policy concerning Manifest Destiny and Slavery. And yet deep social divides remain in the West and here in the South more than a century after these policies were abandoned because the request for forgiveness has gone unheeded.
THE LACK OF FORGIVENESS HAS GENERATIONAL CONSEQUENCES. Racism is inherited. I recognize the effects of my father’s prejudices in my own actions, and I use them an excuse for justifying my behavior. This is why there are gangs. This is why children kill children. This is why forgiveness is neither sought nor extended.
FORGIVENESS MUST BE UNCONDITIONAL. At the end of World War I the victorious powers imposed reparations on the defeated Germans. Because forgiveness was not complete at its outset, the result was World War II. Whenever someone suggests a national reconciliation for slavery, someone else always brings up the subject of reparations, and the process falls flat. Forgiveness does not imply that someone gets off scot-free, only that it was included when Someone else paid a far more greater debt.
IT IS AT THE CROSS WHERE WE SEE THESE PRINCIPLES AT WORK. This is where we see a sinless Savior take on the sins of the world and satisfy the requirements of the Law which says the payment for sins is death.
It is at the cross where families reap the benefit of a father receiving the Father’s love and forgiveness.
It is at the cross where past offenses are buried in a sea of forgetfulness and where anyone who comes there can be set free.
What would Memphis look like if we looked to what is happening in Rwanda, Burundi, Uganda and South Africa and applied the principles we see at work there? What if we do what Matt Damon’s character in the recently released movie Invictus does, and we see the effects on a municipal or even national scale to what takes place to a soccer team in the movie?
Memphis waits. The world waits to see what happens when we extend and receive forgiveness from one another. Taking the first step is ever so hard. The rest will be easier.